Morning Obituary
Another face unknown,
names of spouses, children, friends
There's always a story behind that,
I can almost guess,
maybe he was a doting father,
this one the shrewd mother-in-law,
an ambitious banker, or the hardworking wife.
What happens to them after 10 years,
does anyone remember their words, or smiles?
"Your light will shine upon us",
"Now you're in heaven with God"...
Were they just as treasured when
they were really alive?
Sometimes, I shed a tear
for people I've never known.
At times, I decide to go for their funerals,
but never have the courage to mourn.
Death will come to all,
and one day all will be forgotten.
Should we be angry for going so soon,
recreating Big Bangs and yet knowing nothing?
Perhaps it's only fair, perhaps it's isn't.
Life is quantifiable only in hours,
Both living and dying are infinite.
Sometimes, your dead when you're alive,
sometimes you live even when you're dead.
To some, you're nothing but a photo,
to some, a person they wish they had met.
Comments
..then again, you of all people already know all this. so maybe you just wanted to wallow in the futility for a while. ki pata?
mr bo: u never get me right, do u? low?? don't know why some ppl r so scared to even think abt death. i have a book to suggest for ur reading.. it's called 'the tibetan book of the dead'.
p.s: i don't 'wallow' in the futility. i'm just aware of it.
but it is important to me to know how il be remembered today, etched in someone's memory for a moment, a day or forever.Cos that will determine how one would look at my obituary picture.
Lots of love..:)
I have read many of your posts and have liked them a lot, even if I may not have posted any comment.
This one - Morning Obituary has touched me the most. Very well written indeed.
Thanks
Manish
Both living and dying are infinite indeed..when i go maybe there wont even be a stranger to shed a tear...what matters is if for a moment i made a person glow intensely and for it to pass on!
i am infinite and no obituaries can contain me, i live here on and on..my existence sure shall evade me, my presence shall alway be felt and thats what matters..
and i look at the obituaries and fairly always smile, what made them disappear for their loved ones to etch them on paper. For the nuances of the one who goes away always leaves behind some bitter sweet marks..which bloom on another person...then why wallow.
Choosing to mark anonymous, although am sure you know who i am. Not a gandhi, far from a shakespeare, never intending to be a freud.. just another obituary in the making
anon: i have no freakin' idea who u are!